Monday, December 12, 2016

Why Do You Need A Life Coach?

So you need to talk about what to do with your life, or to deal with problems. You may think that talking to your friend or family is sufficient. However, perhaps a life coach may help you come up with better answers. Here are some of the reasons you should think about getting a life coach:

Your loved ones are biased:  Your friends and family will have their own opinions and interests, and may not be able to give you the advice a life coach can. For example, if you want to lose weight, your mother may insist that you are fine the way you are, even if you are 50 pounds overweight and are experiencing health issues due to your weight. A life coach in Chicago, New York, or elsewhere will tell you what you need to hear; not just what you want to hear.
Those around you are sick of hearing your complaints:  So you are unhappy with aspects of your life, and you want to make changes. Maybe you’re tired of being single, or you want to get on a new career track. So you ask those around you for advice, you don’t listen, and then you talk to them again and again and again to vent. You don’t want to be the person that your co-workers or friends avoid when they see you approach them. A life coach can give you more of a fulfilling place to do constructive things with your life.
Your friends and family are ignorant:  And by this, we don’t mean ignorant as in dumb. We mean that they may not know how to help whatever it is you want to do. For example, if you have a goal of getting in shape and running a marathon, and the only time your best friend gets off the couch is to raid the refrigerator, it is unlikely your friend can help you figure out a plan for you. But a life coach can.
You want to see new possibilities: A life coach can draw you out with questions and help you gain clarity. You can also see a whole new world of possibilities you never even considered.  This can help you more easily gain happiness in your life.
You need better coping skills:  When you talk to a life coach in Chicago or elsewhere, you can have a partner in crime who can help you develop better coping mechanisms to deal with life’s challenges. Those skills can help you grow and improve your life.
You want to be the best you can be:  Whether you want to be a rock star in your business life, or a great spouse, parent and friend in your personal life, a life coach can help you get there. The coach can help you with things like money issues, communication, health, relationships, and work-life balance. So why not talk to a life coach? Click here to learn more.

Thursday, December 1, 2016

Creating Unique Birthday wishes

One of the hardest things for us people to do on loved one's birthday is to write something in a birthday card. We as people always seek the easy way out, we simply find a nice card, write a few words , sign the card, and give it out. When the person who receives the card, they are thankful, but deep down they would have really liked had been a bit more 'thoughtful'. With that said, I would like to give you a few ideas, of things to write in a birthday card, to make it more personal, and thoughtful.

People always love to remember, they become nostalgic, and cheerful when they remember the good times. One of the best things to write about in a birthday card is something you remembered, that was fun, and memorable that you did in the past with the person whom will receive the card. For example your are writing your girlfriend , or boyfriend. You will want to think of something you two did together that was fun. Say you went together three months ago to a festival, and you two had a blast together. Thus in the content you would write about this day, and be detailed, tell about how you had such a good time , and how you never forget the kiss you two shared at the top of the Ferris Wheel, or how you both laughed when the ice cream fell on your boyfriends shirt. People love details, so be detailed. In the greeting add a few memorable things as such, this is very personal, and very thoughtful. Anyone can think of a good time they had with near anyone, and if your going to give a birthday card, well I'm sure then, it will be given to a person you at least 'like'.
Birthday wishes

Another idea of happy birthday wishes to add to a birthday card to make it unique, is to add some humor (this doesn't always mean writing a joke). A birthday should be a cheerful, memorable day thus always keep things on a light note. Don't be serious! You can add to the card something about the person that makes you always smile when you think about them, for example you would write, "I think about you every time I drink my coffee, because you have such a cuteness about you when you drink". Another example would be if your boyfriend is a carpenter, you could write "Every time I hear a hammer pounding, I think of you". People love it when you think about them, and they love when they hear personal unique things about themselves.

You don't need to write a short book when writing a birthday card, just a few sentences are enough. Keep the content personal, and lighthearted. These types of birthday cards will always be remembered by the receiver. I still remember a birthday card I received when I was 11 years old. I remember it because of the content, and what was written in it. The card itself I don't remember what was on the cover, but still to this day I remember every word that was writing in that card. So keep it simple, and personal.